Jack Steltzer and Michael Schaadt recognized the tensions within our country and resolved to do something about it. Thinking globally and acting locally, they organized their first Diversity Dinner at the Rosemont Lutheran church in Bethlehem. Their goal? To bring people together and emphasize the importance of hearing different voices in community conversations.

Both Schaadt and Steltzer stressed that the event was not about politics nor about any specific religious affiliation.

“Rosemont was kind enough to allow us to use their social room and kitchen for this event, but our next event could be anywhere,” Steltzer said.

The dinner was open to the public and true to their plan, politics and religion were absent from this event.

Steltzer and Schaadt eased the guests into comfortable conversation, first through an ice breaker activity, followed by dinner provided by Pat’s of Bethlehem, more conversation, dessert and, ultimately, more meaningful conversation. Without much prodding, people seemed open to sharing.

The hosts stressed the importance of active listening – really listening to what is being said at the table and responding in a respectful, thoughtful way.

“In this world of emojis and abbreviated catch phrases, the skills of making eye contact and using real words - in full sentences - when expressing ourselves can be lost,” Schaadt said.

As guests shared, diversity became evident. Generational differences became similarities. Gender misconceptions became understandable. Before dinner was finished, guests said they recognized the strengths of their differences and the feeling of goodwill as a community.

Discussion regarding broader inclusion of diverse populations will influence future dinners, Steltzer said.

“As a teacher and someone working with children, it is essential I understand cultural and traditional differences so every child can feel connected to their community,” said Allentown charter school teacher and administrator Nickolas Snyder. “Understanding and accepting each other is really what its all about”

Both Steltzer and Schaadt are excited about hosting the next dinner Nov. 12, from 5 to 7 p.m. again at Rosemont. They said they plan to reach out to other diverse populations who were not represented at the first event.