Dear Jacquelyn,

I attended a network event recently and it was hard to hold my drink and plate in one hand and eat. I needed to keep one hand free to shake hands with guests. Do you have any suggestions for how to handle drinks and appetizers when attending a networking event?

Dear Reader,

Networking events encourage people to mingle and have conversations in an environment that allows for interaction outside of work.

How you conduct yourself plays a role in how you are perceived. The goal is to be courteous and professional.

The next time you are attending a networking event and are wondering what to do about the drink or plate in your hand, keep in mind the following simple suggestions.

When you are holding a glass, be sure this is in your left hand. This way, your right hand will remain dry, without external condensation from your glass.

Pick up a cocktail napkin as you will need to wipe your fingers and dab your lips. Use the napkin if your right hand gets wet from holding a glass that may have water on the outside of it. People you meet and shake hands with will appreciate your dry handshake.

If there’s free food and drinks, exercise some self-restraint. The more food you’re juggling, the less opportunity you have to engage in conversation.

When appetizers are being passed on trays, choose no more than three small, easy-to-eat appetizers. Always try to avoid sticky foods and messy sauces.

Holding both glass and plate in your left hand is possible, it just takes a little practice.

With the right balance, you can nibble and nosh your way to making connections with others with confidence and grace.

Respectfully Yours,

Jacquelyn

Have a question? Email: jacquelyn@ptd.net. Jacquelyn Youst is owner of the Pennsylvania Academy of Protocol, specializing in etiquette training. She is on the board of directors of the National Civility Foundation.

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